A reading from the gospel of Matthew 7:6, 12-14
Jesus said to his disciples:
6 “Do not give what is holy to dogs, or throw your pearls before swine,
lest they trample them underfoot, and turn and tear you to pieces.
12 “Do to others whatever you would have them do to you.
This is the Law and the Prophets.
13 “Enter through the narrow gate;
for the gate is wide and the road broad that leads to destruction,
and those who enter through it are many.
14 How narrow the gate and constricted the road that leads to life.
And those who find it are few.”
Reflection
There are three points to consider in the gospel reading today. First, the uselessness or futility of teaching those who refuses to be taught. During the time of Jesus, dogs were not yet considered as man’s friends and swine were considered unclean. To be compared to these animals was a great insult. Thus, Jesus is telling us never to waste our spiritual energy in trying to convert those who are hostile to us. We will only create more hostility. To expect all people to accept the good news will only bring us disappointment and frustration. God alone can change people’s consciousness to a level where they can understand and relate to the message. In short, you can’t force people to mature the way you want it. Still, we don’t stop to pray for them.
Second is the golden rule which is common to almost all civilizations. It is the summary of ethical behavior whether stated positively as in “Do to others” or negatively as in “Do not do to others”. You don’t want others to hurt you then do not hurt them. You want others to love you then love them yourself.
The third is the narrow gate where only few people enter. The road to maturity is a long and difficult process. Only people with courage and perseverance can take it. Most people are contented with what they are now. They want the easy way. Unfortunately, they are unaware that difficult roads lead to beautiful destinations.
These three approaches to good relationships and maturity are not meant to downgrade our duty to love our neighbor as ourselves. We just have to exercise caution and discernment in our relationships. Let us always be reminded that the other person is a creation of the same hand who created us. Let us always be respectful of them no matter what their level of maturity is.
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In the heart of Jesus’ teachings, we find timeless wisdom in the gospel reading above. These verses guide us in how to live our lives with discernment, integrity, and purpose. They challenge us to be mindful of how we share our values, how we treat others, and the paths we choose to walk.
Matthew 7:6 says, “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.” This verse calls us to be discerning about how we share our most precious beliefs and values. Just as we wouldn’t place priceless pearls before animals that can’t appreciate them, we should be wise about sharing our faith and deepest truths. This doesn’t mean we should be secretive or exclusive, but rather, we should recognize when our words are falling on deaf ears or hostile hearts. For example, if you’ve ever tried to share your enthusiasm for a noble cause only to be met with mockery or indifference, you know the frustration and pain it can bring. In such moments, it’s essential to seek out those who are receptive and supportive, fostering an environment where your values can flourish.
Matthew 7:12 is often known as the Golden Rule: “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.” This principle is a cornerstone of ethical living. It encourages us to treat others with the same kindness, respect, and fairness that we wish for ourselves. Imagine a workplace where every employee embraces this rule. Conflicts would diminish, collaboration would thrive, and overall morale would be high. By applying this rule in our daily interactions, whether at home, at work, or in our communities, we create a ripple effect of positivity and goodwill.
Lastly, Matthew 7:13-14 speaks of the narrow and wide gates: “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” This passage highlights the importance of making conscious, often challenging, choices that align with our higher values. The broad road represents the easy, popular path that may lead to short-term gratification but ultimately brings harm. In contrast, the narrow road requires discipline, sacrifice, and perseverance but leads to true fulfillment and life. Consider the choice to pursue a career that aligns with your passion and values versus one that simply offers financial gain. While the latter may seem more accessible and lucrative, the former, though demanding, will likely bring deeper satisfaction and purpose.
Take another example. Consider someone who decides to wake up an hour earlier each day to spend time in quiet reflection, prayer, and studying the Bible. Initially, this decision might be difficult—they might feel the sacrifice of sleep or leisure time. Yet, over time, this practice can transform their life. They begin to experience a stronger sense of God’s presence, greater clarity in their decision-making, and a more compassionate and centered approach to their daily interactions.
In conclusion, these verses from Matthew 7 offer profound guidance for living a meaningful life. By being discerning in sharing our values, treating others with the respect we desire, and choosing the path of integrity and purpose, we align ourselves with a life that is rich in spirit and true to our faith. Let us strive to walk this path with courage and conviction, knowing that the rewards are far greater than the challenges we face.
