A reading from the gospel according to Matthew 5:43-48:

43 Jesus said to his disciples: “You have heard that it was said, You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.
44 But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,
45 that you may be children of your heavenly Father, for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good, and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.
46 For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have? Do not the tax collectors do the same?
47 And if you greet your brothers only, what is unusual about that? Do not the pagans do the same?
48 So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

6/14/2022 Gospel Reflection: Radical Love

What makes a follower of Jesus different from the rest of the world? The answer is in the word itself, follower. To follow means to be like the one being followed. In short, to be like Jesus Himself who loves people even unto His death. To follow Him is to do what He had done and what He had taught.

In the gospel reading above, Jesus is inviting His followers to be more loving than the others. In fact, He is calling them to be perfect! Oh no, that is impossible, you may say. Yes it is indeed impossible by human standards. Yet, Jesus cannot order His listeners to do something if He knows that they cannot do it. With the power of the Holy Spirit, He knew His followers could do it.

The call to love our enemies and to pray for our persecutors is a continuous one. It may not be easy at first but with constant reminders and prayer, our heart of stone will melt and be molded to be meek and humble like our Master’s heart.

To be perfect is to be like our heavenly Father who does not discriminate whom to bless. Jesus is asking us not also to discriminate whom to love and whom to greet. If we love only those who love us, then we are just like anyone else including those who do not believe in Jesus. We are different because we have radical love! It is radical in the sense that it does not expect reciprocation or even reward except for the promise of eternal life.

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In Leviticus 19:2, God said, “Be holy, for I the Lord your God am holy.” It is reasonable to say that this verse in the Old Testament inspired Jesus to exhort his disciples to “Be Perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect” (Matthew 5:48) and “Be Merciful just as your Father is merciful.” (Luke 6:36). Thus, to be perfect means to be holy and to be merciful.

We note that verse 48 that says “Be perfect” is the last verse of chapter 5 in the gospel of Saint Matthew. This verse could be the conclusion of the Sermon on the Mount. It means therefore that if we follow all the teachings in this chapter especially the Beatitudes, we can be perfect. Many of us would immediately say, it is hard. Yet, we must always remember that imperfection and perfection can not mix. Imperfect human beings cannot be united with a perfect God. Still, that is the call of Jesus – for us to be perfect. We just have to believe that it is possible to be perfect since Jesus cannot tell us to do something if He knew that it is impossible.

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How often have we heard of the sentence, ‘Nobody is perfect.”? We use it to excuse ourselves from mistakes. It has become a natural defense mechanism. When we are rebuked or reminded of our sins, we run to cover ourselves with this overused sentence, nobody is perfect. Why can’t we just be humble and admit our faults and weaknesses?

Perhaps what we so should always do is to ask this question, “As a follower of Jesus, what differentiate me from the rest?” The gospel reading above tells us exactly the answer, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. This is not to elevate ourselves and think that we are better or holier than others. In John 13:35, He made again this point. “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” The image of God is love and we were created in that image. Our life must reflect that image.

Indeed, Jesus expects the highest standard of morality from His disciples. That standard is no less than perfection. Light and darkness cannot mix. There is no middle ground. As long as we live in darkness, we cannot enter the heavenly kingdom. “So who can be saved?”, we ask. The question was already answered by Jesus in Matthew 19:26. He said, “With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.”

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The gospel passage above imparts a powerful message about love and compassion. Jesus challenges us not only to love our neighbors but also our enemies. This radical notion goes beyond conventional wisdom, urging us to embody a love that transcends boundaries and expectations. It calls for a transformative love that breaks down the barriers of hatred and resentment.

In the face of adversity, it’s easy to respond with negativity, but Christ encourages a higher standard. By loving our enemies, we participate in a divine love that surpasses human understanding. This love is not rooted in reciprocity; it is a selfless, unconditional love that seeks the well-being of others regardless of their actions.

As we strive to emulate this divine love, we become beacons of light in a world often overshadowed by darkness. Our actions become a testament to the transformative power of love, inspiring those around us to reconsider their own attitudes and prejudices. In this way, we become ambassadors of a love that can heal wounds, bridge divides, and bring about positive change.

Let us, therefore, embrace the challenge presented by Jesus, remembering that in choosing love over hatred, we embody the very essence of God’s grace. By doing so, we contribute to the creation of a more compassionate and harmonious world, where love triumphs over animosity, and kindness prevails against all odds.

Prayer
Dear Jesus, you know everything about me. You know my all my sins, weaknesses as well as my desire to be as holy as I can. Try as I always do, I still remain a sinner. Yet, I believe in your words and I trust in your power. At this very moment, I ask for the grace to be holy in your sight. Amen.

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In this gospel reading, Jesus teaches a revolutionary concept: to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. This passage challenges us to transcend the natural human inclination to harbor resentment and instead, cultivate a spirit of unconditional love and forgiveness. Here, we explore the profound wisdom of this teaching and how we can practically apply it in our daily lives.

Jesus is calling us to a higher standard of love, one that mirrors the boundless compassion of our Heavenly Father. This divine love is not selective; it extends to all, including those who have wronged us. Imagine a world where instead of reacting with anger or seeking revenge, we respond with understanding and kindness.

Consider a situation at work where a colleague has spread false rumors about you, damaging your reputation. The instinctive response might be to retaliate or hold a grudge. However, applying Jesus’ teaching means choosing to forgive and seeking to understand their motives. Perhaps, they acted out of insecurity or misunderstanding. By approaching them with kindness and a willingness to reconcile, you not only heal the relationship but also set an example of grace and maturity.

Verse 45b highlights God’s impartial love and generosity. Just as the sun and rain benefit everyone, our love should not be conditional. We are called to emulate this divine impartiality.

In our everyday interactions, we encounter various people from different walks of life. Some are kind and courteous, while others might be rude or indifferent. Jesus’ teaching encourages us to treat everyone with kindness and fairness, regardless of how they treat us.

In verse 46, Jesus encourages us to go beyond the ordinary. Loving only those who love us back is easy and expected. True Christian love shines when we extend it to those who may not reciprocate.

For example, there are individuals in our communities who may feel isolated or ostracized. Perhaps there is a neighbor who is often unfriendly or difficult to approach. Instead of avoiding them, make an effort to engage. Invite them for a coffee or offer help with a chore. These small acts of kindness can break down barriers and demonstrate genuine love and acceptance.

The call to perfection is an invitation to strive continually toward a higher standard of love and holiness. It reminds us that our journey of faith is ongoing, and each step toward unconditional love brings us closer to the divine ideal.

In conclusion, Jesus challenges us to transform our relationships through radical love and forgiveness. By applying these principles in our workplaces, families, and communities, we can create a more compassionate and understanding world. Let us strive to embody the perfect love of our Heavenly Father, shining as beacons of His grace in all our interactions.

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When people tell us to guard our hearts and draw lines between friend and foe, Jesus calls to love not just those who love us, but to extend that love to those who challenge us, oppose us, and even wrong us. This is a higher calling, a radical way of living that defies instinct and expectation.

To love beyond limits is not about being passive or accepting injustice. It is about choosing a higher path when bitterness seems easier. It’s about showing mercy when retaliation feels justified. True strength lies not in overpowering others, but in mastering ourselves to choose compassion when contempt is expected and forgiveness when anger is deserved.

This kind of love is not conditional. It does not wait for apologies. It does not depend on whether the other person is kind, respectful, or deserving in the eyes of the world. It is generous, consistent, and courageous. It mirrors the kind of grace we ourselves have received, race that covered our faults and met us with kindness when we were least deserving.

When we choose to love in this way, we reflect a divine standard that transcends human limitations. We become mirrors of a greater light, one that shines equally on all people, regardless of their actions or intentions. The sun does not rise for the righteous only. The rain does not fall on one group and not another. The natural world offers blessings indiscriminately, and in doing so, models the impartial love we are called to show.

This love is not easy. It goes against the grain of pride, ego, and fear. It asks us to be vulnerable, to offer kindness where there may be no return. But in doing so, it reshapes the world around us. It breaks cycles of hatred, mends divisions, and awakens hearts that have grown cold.

Anyone can love those who are lovable. Anyone can be generous to those who reciprocate. But to extend kindness to the difficult, the distant, and even the hostile, that is divine. That is the love that transforms.

We are not called to be ordinary. We are called to rise above what is typical, expected, or easy. We are invited to live as a beacon of something greater, to set a new standard that surprises the world with its depth and beauty.

This doesn’t mean allowing others to harm you unchecked, nor does it mean erasing boundaries that keep you safe. It means choosing, even within those boundaries, to root your actions in compassion rather than resentment. It means seeing the humanity in those who have hurt you and choosing to live free of the chains of hate.

Imagine what the world would look like if more people embraced this way of life. If, instead of building walls, we built bridges. If, instead of nursing grudges, we sought healing. If every act of hostility was met with a quiet strength that responded not with vengeance, but with wisdom and peace.

This is not idealism. It is transformation. And it begins not in systems or governments, but in individual hearts willing to be stretched, willing to love courageously.

You have the power to be such a heart. To live generously. To love beyond reason. To bless where others curse. In doing so, you do more than simply follow a noble idea. You become a reflection of something eternal. You become light in darkness, a refuge in conflict, and a living example of the kind of love that can change the world.

Let your life speak not just through your beliefs, but through your actions. Let your love extend past comfort and beyond convenience. Love boldly. Love beyond limits. And in doing so, draw others into the beauty of a higher way.